Thursday, November 13, 2025

The Philosophy of Sleep

These days, a surprising number of people suffer from sleeplessness.

A poet once mocked, “They’ve wasted half their lives sleeping!” — yet we happily spend about one-third of our lives asleep. When sleep doesn’t come, we grow anxious; instead of celebrating those “extra waking hours” as a gift, we complain as if we’ve lost something precious!

But really — what do we do with the time saved from not sleeping?

To make the most of the 67% of life we’re awake, we must first sleep well for that 33%.

No wonder the sleep industry is thriving, worth over 6.7 billion USD worldwide.

The Miracle of Effortless Sleep

Some people amaze us — those blessed souls who fall asleep instantly in trains and planes. Forgetting the world and slipping into rest itself feels like a deep philosophy.

Even the great sage Adi Shankara marvelled at this. Once, walking through a field lost in thought, he saw a man sleeping peacefully under a tree — earth for a bed, sky for a roof. Feeling humbled, the sage composed a verse beginning:

The one who sleeps content beneath a tree — how blessed he is!

And here we are — struggling to sleep even in an air-conditioned room on a luxury mattress.

Sleep finally conquers us like a secret wave. No matter how restless we are, at some mysterious second it rises from nowhere and sweeps us into its embrace.

The Ritual of Falling Asleep

We have our own little rituals — a glass of warm milk, a Jeyamohan novel, a cozy bed, AC set to 25 °C, or perhaps an Ilaiyaraja melody. Once, even the soft drone of a tambura could lull us to sleep. Now we subscribe to “Sleep Playlists” on Spotify. 🤣

But do we ever try to wake up?

That happens by itself. The alarm doesn’t wake us — the brain does. If the brain is still asleep, the alarm just becomes part of our dream!

A Mini-Death, A Daily Resurrection

Spiritual teachers say waking up is in God’s hands. Every morning we open our eyes, it’s His grace.

As children, when we asked our mother for food at night, she always gave it — perhaps fearing it could be our last wish before the long sleep.

Because sleep is a mini-death. There’s no guarantee we’ll wake up. Each morning we do — it’s a small miracle.

Philosophers say sleep is the prototype of death. What happens after we die might be no different — heaven and hell are just dreams of the soul. Then, suddenly, like waking from sleep, we “wake up” again — in another body, in another ward, as a newborn.

Then comes naming, nursery rhymes — Nursery rhymes. 

Even if we win a Nobel Prize in this life, the next one begins the same way.

Vedanta calls this “Dina Pralayam” — the daily dissolution. Every night everything ends, at least psychologically. We don’t have to wait for a cosmic apocalypse; just wait till bedtime!

Who Stole Our Sleep?

When a cyclone is about to hit the coast at 250 km/h, the news channels scream, “Disaster! Destruction!” But we plan for tomorrow anyway. The elders at home laugh, “Let the storm pass first. Rest a bit. Then plan.”

We are no different — standing before the night, that little daily apocalypse, still dreaming of tomorrow’s victories.

But tell me — who took away our sleep?

Who lit up the night like day, refusing darkness its place? Who is filling our stomach all through the night?

Who filled it with noise, drowning peace in loudspeakers?

Who frightened us with “If you don’t sleep, you’ll die”?

Who sold pills by feeding that fear?

Who made us believe sleeplessness is a sin?

It’s all us.

We did it — to ourselves.

Sleep well tonight.

It may look like a small act of rest — but perhaps it’s our only daily miracle.

Monday, November 10, 2025

To a friend, who frustrated!

மீண்டும் எழு!

பிரமிப்பூட்டும் பர்வதங்கள் அச்சமூட்டுமா?அவற்றின் உச்சியை நோக்கி நப!  அவை ஓடப்போவதில்லை;   

வெல்லக்கூடியவையே அவை.

வழியை அறிதல் — அதுவே ஞானம்.


விடியற்காலங்கள் சோர்வூட்டுமா?அமைதியாக படுத்திரு;

அலைகள் அடங்கட்டும் 

குடி மூழ்கிவிடாது!


திட்டங்கள் சிதைந்தனவா?

அஞ்சாதே!

மீண்டும் திட்டமிடு,

மீண்டும் தொடங்கு!

ஒவ்வொரு விழுதும் எழுச்சிக்கான முன்னுரை!


அருவருப்பான நீள் முடிகள் 

மழிக்கப்படலாம்;

ஆனால் —

உன் கிரீடம் தாழ்த்தப்படக் கூடாது!


இன்றைய நாள் வாழ்வின் முடிவல்ல;

ஓய்வு தோல்வி அல்ல;

இடைநிறுத்தம் ஓர் இளைப்பாறல் —

அதற்குப் பின் எழுச்சி!


முட்டி மோதுவது வியூகம் அல்ல;

பின்வாங்கி பாய்வதே விவேகம்!

மெதுவாய் செல்வதுதான் சில போரில் வெற்றி.


சிதைந்த மனம் தடுமாறுவது இயல்பு;

ஆழ்ந்து சிந்தி — சீரமை!

எதுவும் சாத்தியமே,

உயிர் இருக்கும் வரை நம்பிக்கை தழைக்கும்!


உன்னை நீயே நேசி,

உன்னை நீயே மன்னி;

உன்னை மீட்டெடுப்பது —

உனக்கே உரியது!

Tuesday, November 4, 2025

When Freedom Turns Into Foolishness

When Freedom Turns Into Foolishness

An Indian Reflection Beyond Liberal Narratives

The Coimbatore Tragedy A young woman was recently gang-raped in Coimbatore.

Before the investigation could even take shape, the familiar voices of self-styled liberals and feminists filled the space — talking about individual rights, freedom of choice, and patriarchal control.

But what these commentators miss — or refuse to see — is the ground reality of India’s social fabric. Here, blind idealism often collides with practical life, where families still bear the moral and financial responsibility when tragedy strikes.

When “Freedom” Ignores Common Sense

A few years ago, an actress in Chennai drove drunk along the OMR road late at night. Her friend, who was with her in the car, was thrown out during the crash and died on the spot.

Her parents didn’t even know she had gone out that night.

When well-meaning elders said, “Parents should at least know where their children are going and with whom,” the liberal camp erupted:

 “What patriarchy! Once a person is 21, they can go wherever they wish. Parents have no right to question them.”

But when tragedy happens, who receives the first phone call?

The parents.

Who rushes to the hospital, arranges for blood, pays the bills, and endures the pain?

Again, the parents.

When responsibility ultimately falls on them, should they not have the right to know where their children are?

The Burden of Responsibility

The loudest defenders of “freedom” and “feminism” rarely appear at the hospital. They don’t share the grief or the bills — only the opinions.

Every time an accident or crime happens, the first questions from the police are simple:

“Where did your son or daughter go? With whom? At what time?”

Even in missing-person cases, these questions repeat.

Now imagine parents saying, “I don’t know. They’re adults. I have no right to track them.”

How would that sound to any police officer — or to society itself?

Responsibility without rights is meaningless.

Expecting parents to answer for everything while denying them the right to guide or monitor is not modernity — it’s irresponsibility.

Freedom Needs Boundaries

Dragging every tragedy into debates on feminism or patriarchy is not intellect — it’s ignorance.

If someone counts their money loudly in a crowded bus stand, claiming “It’s my right,” will thieves spare them?

Common sense must guide the exercise of rights.

Freedom without wisdom is an open invitation to danger.

The Missing Empathy

Yes, everyone has the legal right to study, love, and live freely.

But knowingly walking into unsafe situations and later calling it “my right” isn’t empowerment — it’s recklessness.

Have these so-called liberals ever thought about the agony of the parents? Do they understand the shock, trauma, and fear of the victims themselves?

They jump from one outrage to another, without empathy or continuity.

That’s not awareness — that’s performance.

The Real Question

When a tragedy happens, the real need is not a shouting match about patriarchy or individualism.

It’s empathy, wisdom, and the courage to teach responsible freedom.

Those who bear the responsibility must also have the right to protect.

That’s not control — it’s care.

Because in the real world, freedom without responsibility doesn’t liberate — it destroys.

Monday, November 3, 2025

Cricket world Cup

Women’s Cricket World Cup – A Display of True Professionalism

In high-pressure situations, when tension runs high and every move counts, the Indian women’s cricket team showed what true professionalism means. They remained composed, avoided panic, and didn’t allow mistakes to snowball. Their calm and natural style of play stood out as their greatest strength.

The team is evolving beautifully. With such focus and balance, they are capable of defeating any side in the world.

As M. S. Dhoni once wisely said, “If you learn to enjoy and handle the pressure, talent will take care of the rest.”


Heartfelt congratulations to our women’s cricket team for their inspiring performance and growing excellence on the global stage!


They resembled the WI of 70s  enjoying their game, crowd. The captain's dance says it all ! 

Congratulations coaches 👏