2k kids

 A year ago, a relative of mine complained that her daughter was not willing to get married and asked me to “advise” her.

Being the girl’s Thatha, I was also—very modestly—interested in finding a suitable bridegroom. After all, old habits die hard. 😄

However, I am fully aware of the 2K kids’ approach towards life and their uncompromising respect for personal choice. So I wasn’t particularly enthusiastic about talking to her.

Since I couldn’t avoid it altogether, I kept it simple. I told her that it was entirely her choice whether she wanted to tie the knot or not, and that I had no right to compel her. I only added one small thought:

“Just think about life in your 40s and 50s—when parents may no longer be around and family circles become smaller.”

As expected, she brushed me aside instantly.

“I know better than you, Thatha. Everyboy is a rogue today!”

Conversation over.

Last month, she returned—this time with a request.

She has a love boy, and now I am expected to convince her mother, who is not willing to accept the alliance.

When I gently pointed out the contradiction, I told her calmly:

“That was my opinion then, and this is my stand now.”

She had no reply.

And that made me think.

When I look at these 2K kids, I feel both fear and amazement.

Fear—because of how confidently they take life-altering decisions.

Amazement—because of how lightly they carry them.

They seem to live life with ease, without unnecessary complications.

They don’t hold on to rigid stands or permanent positions.

What they believe today is valid for today.

If tomorrow brings a new understanding, they accept it without embarrassment or regret.

They don’t wrestle with life.

They simply flow with it.

Time does change—everyone knows that.

But has it really changed this fast?